Sometimes we feel that we are not gud enough...always think that we are too small compared to others... afraid to speak up our opinion...thinks that everythin' that we have done are not so gud... 'do people like it?...do people can accept it?'...and 1001 questions that revolving in our mind...we don't know the answer...& do we really need that answer???...I don't no...
Fuhh!!!...it's not so easy to be confident ek.... So, to abolish the -ve thought in my mind....& ur mind too..(hehe...), there's tips for us...
Here's How to Believe in Ourself..
1.Make a list of special talents you have, or things you do that are good....perasan bagus pun x per...coz focusing on your attributes helps distract you from those parts of yourself that you think are flawed.
2. Find ur passion.
3. Choose a role model.. whether someone close to you...like ur sibling...mum......or someone famous mcm Dr Fazillah Kamsah ker...or sesapa jer laa yg u rasa berkenan...Think of the qualities that the role model displays, whether physical, emotional, moral, and/or spiritual. Work towards acquiring those.
4. Don't think about yourself too much... Try not to focus negatively on how you come across or how others may perceive you. Wat bodo jer laa...hehe..
5. If someone give u compliments, accept it gracefully...& respond positively...( say thanks ker...)
6. Know that you have important things to say and do. When you feel strongly about something, speak loudly & clearly...& make eye contact with people.. The important thing is...Be urself!!
Actually, bnyk lg tips to be confident...but I think, ni pun dh cukup dah... So, I hope that it will help u to built a confident in urself...



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